Each couple must have had a desire to be met in the relationship.Â However, another story if the desire is turned into charges that could harm the couple.Â Yes, it is called an ultimatum.Â EnterprisesÂ desperateÂ couples childish insecure and too stupid to find the best solution in order to solve the conflict. Although unfair and abusive approach, used by many couples ultimatum.Â People who were given an ultimatum was upset and confused because her partner deliberately hurt themselves by forcing him to give up something of value for him.Â If you feel couples often use the ultimatum to resolve the problem, it means you are in a abusive relationship both mentally, physically, and emotionally.Â Therefore, you are obliged to recognize ultimatums and demands undue pair given to you in a relationship partner.
5 Couple Demands you should Ignore Due to Hurt
“If You-Bener Bener dear Just Me, You Must …”
The remark is unfair to you.Â You are independent of the choice of partner, as if you did not have the voice to find a way out.Â You felt awry.Â If you did what was asked a couple, you’ll hate the couple.Â On the other hand, if you do not do it, you are considered not loving couple.
In fact, theÂ ultimatumÂ as above has nothing to do with love.Â Couples just want mengontrolmu.Â The couple did not respect the differences between you and does not want to respect you as an individual.Â Do not get caught manipulation of this one, yes!
2. “You Can Not Collect Longer Just Friends You If You Still darling Just Me!”
Besides ultimatum, there are more demands that force you to sacrifice a couple unfairly.Â For example, every Friday night you come together with work friends.Â However, since your partner loner and wants you with him, he no longer requires you to gather on Friday with threats or manipulation.
Couples do not like youÂ get together with your friendsÂ ?Â That is none of your business.Â Couple inappropriate shed insecurity and personal problems to you.Â Tell your partner to find friends or doing other things rather than drag you into the pit of misery.
3. “If You Want ngelakuin Not What I Want, We Drop!”
If the pair to have to issue the ultimatum, it’s obvious you’re dealing with a couple of abusive and childish.Â You should not sacrifice yourself, your happiness, and life satisfaction partner.Â The best answer to this ultimatum is, “I love you.Â But I’m not going ngelakuin it for you. “
She decided you after you turn it down?Â Blessed and look for a new partner who is not mempelakukanmu with abusive.
4. “You Have to Stop Work Make Me!”
For example, the pair tells you to stop or move the work for trivial reasons such as an office friend fancies you.Â Or you are required to stop working for the sake of taking care of the house while you still want to fight for your career.Â Though work is a source of pemasukanmu, and you’re already comfortable with your career.Â If you feel happy and not make a mistake on a couple related to your job, you should not stop because of coercion.
5. “Choose Me or hobby you !?”
You like to paint and wanted to become a famous painter.Â However, the pair scold you and told you to stop.Â When you protest, he sent you to choose between him orÂ passionÂ you in painting.Â Just because you love each other, he still was not right to tell you to stop doing what you love for him.
Couples can respond dreams,Â passionÂ , and this aspiration with jealousy.Â He felt you prefer to do your hobbies rather than spend time with him.Â When partners feel neglected by you because of your hobbies, should be discussed carefully, rather thanÂ sulkÂ and give ultimatums.